OkCupid alternatives: six apps to try instead of OkCupid
Hinge, Bumble, Tinder, Plenty of Fish, Match and Feeld are the six OkCupid alternatives below. OkCupid's lowest listed price is USD 7.99 on the US App Store, and its free account already covers matching and messaging.
At a glance
- OkCupid is free to join, answer questions, match and message, per its help center. Paid plans add seeing who has liked you, unlimited Likes and Dealbreakers.
- Lowest listed price: USD 7.99 for OkCupid Premium on the US App Store, with no period stated; the US App Store lists A-List at USD 9.99. Google Play and web prices are not covered.
- OkCupid names casual dating and serious relationships side by side. It is not classed as hookup-focused, and how it treats non-monogamy is not described.
- Bumble, Tinder, Plenty of Fish, Match and Feeld state that free accounts can chat or message. Hinge's pages do not say.
- Feeld is the only one of the six classed as open-relationship friendly.
Why people look for OkCupid alternatives
Price is the first reason. The US App Store lists A-List at USD 9.99 and OkCupid Premium at USD 7.99, 15.99, 19.99, 29.99, 44.99 and 59.99. The UK App Store lists A-List at GBP 7.99 and Premium at GBP 5.99, 11.99, 14.99, 22.99, 38.99 and 44.99. No listing states a period, so six prices under one Premium name cannot be sorted into weeks, months or years. The rows are on OkCupid pricing; Google Play and web prices are not covered.
Free limits are the second. The help center says using the app is completely free, and the paid plans add seeing who has liked you, unlimited Likes and Dealbreakers. How many Likes a free account gets is not published. Sign-up asks for 15 answers, drawn from 500+ questions in the app.
Intent is the third. Google Play puts "some casual dating" next to "hoping to find a serious relationship", and both stores name relationships, marriage and love beside casual dating, so the app has no stated lean. Hookups are not confirmed as a focus. No source read says how OkCupid handles non-monogamy or polyamory; the ranked answers for that are in open relationship apps.
Privacy and missing features make up the rest. Incognito Mode is a paid upgrade, after which "the only people who can see your profile are people you've liked", and the privacy policy says that with permission OkCupid collects device latitude and longitude. Video chat, voice messages, private photos, group chat, couples profiles and disappearing messages are not confirmed. The OkCupid review covers the app itself.
On LGBTQ+ fit, OkCupid's Google Play text calls it "an LGBT dating app". Among the six, Bumble's listing promises to "support and include all forms of love", Feeld is described as lgbtq-inclusive, and Match's sign-up form lists several pairings. Hinge, Tinder and Plenty of Fish do not address it in the pages read. The audience ranking is in LGBTQ hookup and dating apps.
If you want a relationship-first app
Hinge: prompts and a relationship aim
- Platforms
- iPhone, Android
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- USD 14.99 (US, App Store)
Hinge is the relationship-first option, and its App Store line says it is for people who want to get off of dating apps. OkCupid scores answers across a question bank. On Hinge every match begins with someone liking or commenting on a specific part of your profile, and the app learns your type from answers to prompts, photos and profile fields. Hookups are classed as no, and casual dating is not confirmed.
The paywalls look alike. Hinge+ adds seeing everyone who likes you and sending unlimited likes, two of the three things OkCupid's paid plans add, and HingeX adds enhanced recommendations
and priority likes. Whether free accounts can message each other is not stated, where OkCupid's help center says matched members can. Hinge's lowest listed US App Store price is USD 14.99 for the Hinge Subscription, and Hinge+ starts at USD 16.99; neither states a period, and OkCupid Premium starts at USD 7.99.
Selfie Verification is listed. A web version is not confirmed, the Google Play band is 10M+ against OkCupid's 50M+, and the App Store listing appears in 32 of 45 storefronts against OkCupid's 44. The pair is set out in Hinge vs OkCupid.
Swipe apps with a wider reach
Bumble and Tinder are the two largest apps in this set by Google Play band, 100M+ and 500M+ against OkCupid's 50M+.
Bumble: women-first, with ID checks
- Platforms
- iPhone, Android, Web
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- USD 2.99 (US, App Store)
Bumble calls itself women-first, and much of its Google Play free-features list is safety tooling: ID Verification, sharing meetup details with a trusted person and Snooze Mode. Photo Verification gives a grey verified badge and may use facial recognition. OkCupid's check is a video selfie with a Liveness Check and 3D Face Authentication.
On intent, the listing speaks to people ready to "find the one or date for fun", about the breadth of OkCupid's wording. Hookup-focused is not confirmed. Chat with matches is free, and so are video chat and picture sharing; video chat is not confirmed for OkCupid. The same listing promises to "support and include all forms of love". An Incognito Mode is named ("Browse anonymously").
The US App Store lists Bumble Boost from USD 2.99 to USD 12.99 and Bumble Premium at USD 17.99, 19.99 and 32.99, with no periods. A web version exists, and the App Store listing appears in all 45 storefronts checked. See Bumble vs OkCupid.
Tinder: the largest pool and free chat
- Platforms
- iPhone, Android, Web
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- USD 9.99 (US, App Store)
Tinder lists 500M+ downloads on Google Play, ten times OkCupid's band. Two people can chat once both have liked each other. Google Play says it helps you "find a date, a serious relationship, or meet new friends", and the App Store text describes a "fun, relaxed" dating experience; casual dating is not named as a goal.
A free account can send Likes, match and chat. The paid features the listings name are unlimited Likes, weekly Super Likes, compliments before a match, unlimited Rewinds and monthly Boosts. The US App Store lists Tinder Plus at USD 9.99, the same figure as OkCupid's A-List, and Tinder Gold at USD 13.99 up to USD 24.99; neither app's listing states the period. Google Play names an Incognito Mode and Photo Verification, and the Terms of Use list Tinder.com as part of the service. Tinder vs OkCupid has the head-to-head.
Free filters and a relationship focus
Plenty of Fish and Match both let free members message their matches, and they differ on what else the free tier holds.
Plenty of Fish: filters that stay free
- Platforms
- iPhone, Android, Web
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- USD 19.99 (US, App Store)
Plenty of Fish keeps search filters in the free tier: gender, location, age, distance, religion and more. Free members can also Like people in Meet Me and message Mutual Matches, per the help center. Paid tiers add unlimited Likes, no ads and more. OkCupid sells Dealbreakers, so a reader who wants preference controls without a plan has a candidate here. Casual dating and hookups are not confirmed for it.
Incognito is "available in Plus, Premium and Prestige tiers", and Selfie Verification matches a video selfie to the main profile photo before a badge appears. The US App Store lists a POF Premium at USD 29.99, a subscription at USD 29.99 for 1 month and USD 19.99 for 1 week, and an Upgrade at USD 19.99 and 38.99. The 1-week row is stated outright. The UK App Store has the subscription at GBP 29.99 for 1 month and GBP 19.99 for 1 week.
The site has sign-in and registration pages, so a web version is confirmed. Google Play shows the same 50M+ band as OkCupid, and the App Store listing appears in 36 of 45 storefronts, missing the United Arab Emirates, Saudi Arabia, the Philippines, Thailand, Singapore, Malaysia, South Korea, Taiwan and Vietnam. Plenty of Fish vs OkCupid compares the two.
Match: curated recommendations and stated intentions
- Platforms
- iPhone, Android, Web
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- USD 19.99 (US, App Store)
Match is titled for "Real Relationships and Real People" in the App Store, and profiles carry the dating intention and values you choose to state. Hookups are classed as no, and casual dating is not confirmed. The eligibility page requires members to be "single or separated from your spouse".
The help center says All of our free members are now able to chat with every match
. Free members also receive daily match suggestions and can rate up to 50 recommended profiles a day. Private Mode sits in the slot OkCupid fills with Incognito Mode, and it is a paid add-on as well. The cheapest US App Store row is a Match tier at USD 19.99 with no period; the 1-month rows are USD 44.99 and the 6-month Bundle is USD 129.99.
The App Store listing appears in 15 of the 45 storefronts checked, against OkCupid's 44, and Match also runs a website. Google Play shows 10M+ downloads. See Match vs OkCupid.
Open relationships, couples and desire tags
Feeld: couples, polyamory and desire tags
- Platforms
- iPhone, Android
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- USD 29.99 (US, App Store)
Feeld is built for singles, couples and polyamorous groups, and it is the one app of the six classed as open-relationship friendly. Google Play says "Meet as a single, a couple, or link profiles with a partner". The About page lists the audience: "From asexuality to polysexuality, from celibacy to BDSM". The Looking for options include "Casual play and fun" and "Short-term connections", and the FAQ declines the hookup label. Couples can start with dating apps for couples.
Feeld is free to download and use, and free accounts can connect, explore profiles and send messages. Majestic adds who-likes-you, Unlimited Likes, one free Ping a day, Incognito, private photos and filters by Desires and Last Seen. Its rows carry periods, which OkCupid's do not: the US App Store lists Majestic Membership at USD 29.99 for 30 days, USD 49.99 for 90 days and USD 149.99 for 1 year. The UK App Store lists the 1-year Majestic at GBP 99.99.
Feeld has iPhone and Android apps, with a 5M+ Google Play band, and a web version is not confirmed. The App Store listing appears in 42 of 45 storefronts, missing the Philippines, Malaysia and Hong Kong.
OkCupid next to the six picks
Hinge is the only one of the seven whose free messaging is unconfirmed, and Hinge and Feeld are the two with no confirmed web version.
OkCupid
- Main intentdating
- Free messagingYes
- Lowest listed price (US, App Store)USD 7.99, OkCupid Premium
- Incognito modeYes
- Profile verificationYes
- Web versionYes
Hinge
- Main intentrelationships
- Free messagingNot confirmed
- Lowest listed price (US, App Store)USD 14.99, Hinge Subscription
- Incognito modeNot confirmed
- Profile verificationYes
- Web versionNot confirmed
Bumble
- Main intentdating
- Free messagingYes
- Lowest listed price (US, App Store)USD 2.99, Bumble Boost
- Incognito modeYes
- Profile verificationYes
- Web versionYes
Tinder
- Main intentmixed
- Free messagingYes
- Lowest listed price (US, App Store)USD 9.99, Tinder Plus
- Incognito modeYes
- Profile verificationYes
- Web versionYes
Plenty of Fish
- Main intentdating
- Free messagingYes
- Lowest listed price (US, App Store)USD 19.99, Upgrade
- Incognito modeYes
- Profile verificationYes
- Web versionYes
Match
- Main intentrelationships
- Free messagingYes
- Lowest listed price (US, App Store)USD 19.99, Match
- Incognito modeYes
- Profile verificationYes
- Web versionYes
Feeld
- Main intentsex-positive
- Free messagingYes
- Lowest listed price (US, App Store)USD 29.99, Majestic Membership
- Incognito modeYes
- Profile verificationYes
- Web versionNot confirmed
FAQ
Is there a free app like OkCupid?
OkCupid is itself free to join, answer questions, match and message. Plenty of Fish lets free members use search filters, Like people in Meet Me and message Mutual Matches. Bumble, Tinder, Match and Feeld also state free chat or messaging, and Hinge's pages do not say.
Which OkCupid alternative allows casual dating?
Bumble names dating "for fun", and Feeld's Looking for options include "Casual play and fun". Tinder lists a date, a serious relationship or new friends, and casual dating is not confirmed for Hinge, Plenty of Fish or Match.
What is the best OkCupid alternative for open relationships?
Feeld is the only one of the six classed as open-relationship friendly, with linked partner profiles for couples. How OkCupid treats non-monogamy is not described in the pages read. More options are ranked in our open relationship picks.
Does OkCupid have an incognito mode?
Yes, as a paid upgrade named Incognito Mode. Bumble, Tinder, Plenty of Fish, Match and Feeld name a comparable control, and for Hinge an incognito mode is not confirmed. The comparison is in dating apps with incognito mode.
Which OkCupid alternatives work in a browser?
A web version is confirmed for OkCupid, Bumble, Tinder, Plenty of Fish and Match. It is not confirmed for Hinge or Feeld. The list of options is in dating sites without app download.