LGBTQ+ hookup and dating apps: who they serve, how they match and what is free
Grindr, SCRUFF and Hornet are the LGBTQ hookup and dating apps here built around a grid of nearby profiles, HER is made for queer women, non-binary and trans people, and OkCupid, Feeld and Taimi are open to people of any gender. All seven list 18 as the minimum age.
At a glance
- Among the LGBTQ hookup and dating apps here, Grindr, SCRUFF and Hornet show a grid of nearby profiles for gay, bi, trans and queer people. HER is for queer women, non-binary and trans people, and its core features, messaging included, are free.
- Grindr's free account includes chat and private photos. OkCupid is free to join, match and message. SCRUFF is free to download, and whether free members can message is not confirmed.
- Incognito or stealth mode is a paid feature at Grindr, SCRUFF, HER, OkCupid and Feeld.
- Lowest listed prices on the US App Store: SCRUFF USD 3.99, OkCupid USD 7.99, Grindr and HER USD 14.99, Feeld USD 29.99. Most listings state no period.
- All seven list 18 as the minimum age. No country-level legal or safety facts for LGBTQ+ users are stated here.
The LGBTQ hookup and dating apps below are sorted by who they serve and how they match: a grid of nearby profiles, a swipe stack with communities, or questions and preferences. The order is not a ranking. The search term is hookup, but the wording on the apps' own pages is dating, chat and community. The pages checked for Grindr, HER, SCRUFF and OkCupid do not call any of them a hookup app, and Feeld's FAQ declines the label. SCRUFF's homepage lists a profile tag, Random play/NSA
, and Feeld's Looking for options include casual play and fun.
LGBTQ hookup and dating apps built around a nearby grid
Grindr: a grid of nearby profiles
- Platforms
- iPhone, Android, Web
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- USD 14.99 (US, App Store)
The App Store listing calls Grindr the world's #1 free dating app serving the LGBTQ community
. Grindr is a location-based social and dating app for gay, bi, trans and queer adults. Its grid shows nearby profiles that you browse and message directly, and tags, filters and starred favorites narrow it down. The word hookup does not appear in the store listings, the homepage or the community guidelines, and casual dating is not named.
Grindr is free to download. A free account shows nearby users, chat, private photos and albums, tags and basic filters, favorites, and block and report, with third-party ads. XTRA and Unlimited add features and remove ads: XTRA shows up to 600 profiles at once, Unlimited shows unlimited profiles, and Incognito mode (browse profiles without being seen
) sits under Unlimited. The US App Store lists XTRA at USD 14.99 and USD 22.99 and Unlimited at USD 27.99 and USD 44.99, with no period stated, and a Grindr subscription (tier not named) at USD 24.99 and USD 27.99 for 1 month.
The terms say We do not verify users.
and set the minimum age at 18. Grindr runs on iPhone and iPad, on Android (50M+ downloads on Google Play) and on the web, with no download required. The App Store listing is in 41 of the 45 storefronts checked, not in Turkey, Saudi Arabia, Malaysia or Indonesia. More on the app is in the Grindr review.
SCRUFF: a daily Match stack and Pro tiers
- Platforms
- iPhone, Android
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- USD 3.99 (US, App Store)
SCRUFF's store description says SCRUFF is an independent, LGBTQ+ owned and operated company
, and its listings address gay, bi, trans and queer people. Members browse nearby profiles and chat. SCRUFF Match adds a new daily stack: swipe right if interested, left to pass, or Ask later
to see the profile again tomorrow. Tapping I'm Interested
on a profile tells you whether the attraction is mutual. Members can also Woof, and an Explore feed shows Moments, events and cities.
SCRUFF is free to download; the terms call the free tier the Standard Service and the paid one the Pro Version. The homepage lists what Pro adds: complete message history, up to 1,000 nearby members, stealth mode, more search filters, no fullscreen ads and read receipts. Whether free members can message is not confirmed. The US App Store lists Browsing Pro at USD 3.99, Messaging Pro at USD 4.99 and SCRUFF Pro from USD 9.99 to USD 119.99, none with a period stated in the listing.
Selfie verification is optional and earns a badge. SCRUFF runs on iPhone and on Android (10M+ downloads on Google Play), and a web version is not confirmed. The terms set the minimum age at 18, and the App Store listing is in 43 of the 45 storefronts checked, not in Turkey or Malaysia. The SCRUFF review goes through the rest.
Hornet: a grid, a feed and hashtags
Hornet is a gay dating and chat app with a nearby grid, a feed, hashtags, filters and video chat. The App Store listing calls it a free gay dating app
, and its text addresses gay, bi, trans and queer men. The seller is Queer Networks Inc. Hornet runs on iPhone, on Android (10M+ downloads on Google Play) and on the web, and the terms set the minimum age at 18. The App Store listing is in 41 of the 45 storefronts checked, not in Turkey, Malaysia, Indonesia or South Korea. Its prices are not covered here.
Apps for queer women, non-binary and trans people
HER: queer women, non-binary and trans people
- Platforms
- iPhone, Android
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- USD 14.99 (US, App Store)
HER's homepage invites queer women, nonbinary and trans sapphics
into a safe space. The app combines dating with friends: members add friends, join communities, view events and use a Feed. Matching is a swipe-based Meet stack plus a Nearby view, and a Like becomes a match when it is mutual. Free accounts have daily swipes, and Premium removes the limit. The Premium Looking For filter includes Monogamous, Poly, New Friends & More
.
The homepage says All of our core features are free and will remain free.
The Premium page adds that members can Like, Match and Message without any cost, and the free app shows ads. Incognito Mode is a Premium feature, and private photos are not mentioned. The US App Store lists HER Gold and HER Premium at USD 14.99 and HER Platinum from USD 19.99 to USD 31.99, none with a period stated in the listing, and the GB App Store lists HER Premium from GBP 7.99.
The homepage also says users are verified and authenticated on the app
. HER runs on iPhone and iPad and on Android (5M+ downloads on Google Play), and a web version is not confirmed. The terms set the minimum age at 18, and the App Store listing is in 42 of the 45 storefronts checked, not in the United Arab Emirates, Saudi Arabia or Malaysia. The HER review has the longer version.
Apps open to every gender and orientation
OkCupid: questions and a Match % score
- Platforms
- iPhone, Android, Web
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- USD 7.99 (US, App Store)
OkCupid matches on answers. Members answer questions (500+ in the app, 15 required at sign-up) and set dating preferences, and the algorithm combines what each person wants with their answers to shared questions into a Match % score. The help center lists gender and orientation among the preferences members can set, and Cupid's Picks adds a daily selection. Google Play calls OkCupid an LGBT dating app
and names lesbian, gay, bi, trans and queer users beside others. It is a dating app for people of all genders and orientations who want anything from casual dating to a serious relationship.
The help center says using OkCupid is completely free, including creating an account and interacting with matches. Paid plans add seeing who has liked you, unlimited Likes and Dealbreakers, and Incognito Mode is a paid upgrade. Photo Verification uses a video selfie with a Liveness Check and 3D Face Authentication. The US App Store lists A-List at USD 9.99 and OkCupid Premium from USD 7.99 to USD 59.99, none with a period stated, and the GB App Store lists A-List at GBP 7.99.
OkCupid has a web version and an Android app (50M+ downloads on Google Play). The terms set the minimum age at 18, and the App Store listing is in 44 of the 45 storefronts checked, not in South Korea.
Feeld: open to all genders, with linked profiles
- Platforms
- iPhone, Android
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- USD 29.99 (US, App Store)
Feeld describes itself as LGBTQ-inclusive and open to all genders, and whether it is LGBTQ-focused is not confirmed. Feeld is an adult dating app for singles, couples and polyamorous groups, with desire tags and linked partner profiles; the couple side is covered in couples dating apps compared. Mutual Likes create a Connection that opens chat, and Pings let you message someone before matching.
Free accounts can connect with others, explore profiles and send messages. Majestic adds Incognito, private photos and filters by Desires and Last Seen, and the optional photo verification is described on the safety page. The UK terms set the minimum age at 18, and a web version is not confirmed.
Taimi: LGBTQ+ dating and chat for every identity
Taimi's site headline is The Leading LGBTQ+ Dating App
, and the site describes a fully inclusive dating app that embraces the entire LGBTQ+ spectrum
. Taimi is a dating and chat app for people of all genders and sexualities, with matching, filters and chat. The seller is Social Impact Inc. Taimi runs on iPhone and iPad and on Android (10M+ downloads on Google Play); taimi.com is a marketing and blog site, so a web version is not confirmed. The terms set the minimum age at 18, and the App Store listing is in 42 of the 45 storefronts checked, not in Turkey, the United Arab Emirates or Malaysia. Its prices are not covered here.
Bisexual users
Four of the seven apps name bi people in their own store text: Grindr's listings address gay, bi, trans and queer adults, SCRUFF's address gay, bi, trans and queer people, Hornet's text reads gay, bi, trans, and queer men
, and Google Play lists bi users among OkCupid's. HER is aimed at lesbian, bi, queer, non-binary and trans people who want dating plus friends and community. Feeld and Taimi describe themselves as open to every identity.
The pool differs by app. Hornet's store text addresses men and HER's addresses queer women, non-binary and trans people, while OkCupid, Feeld and Taimi describe themselves as open to all genders. Whether a bisexual identity can be shown on a profile or searched for is not covered here.
Location, incognito mode and verification
Grindr, HER, SCRUFF, Feeld and OkCupid are all location-based. Grindr's terms say the Services use device location to show nearby users and show you to them, HER's privacy policy says the app collects location when opened unless location services are off, and SCRUFF collects it with consent through GPS, Wi-Fi or cellular data.
Incognito or stealth mode is paid at all five. At Grindr it sits under Unlimited, at SCRUFF under Pro (stealth mode and browse anonymously), at HER under Premium, at OkCupid as a paid upgrade and at Feeld under Majestic, where it hides your profile in the feed until you Like someone. Profile checks differ. Grindr's terms say it does not verify users, HER's homepage says users are verified and authenticated, SCRUFF has optional selfie verification with a badge, OkCupid has Photo Verification and Feeld has optional photo verification. Apps are compared by feature in dating apps with incognito mode and dating apps with profile verification.
No country-level legal or safety facts for LGBTQ+ users are stated here: none comes with a dated source, and an app's own policy is the only rule quoted. Wider questions are in are hookup apps safe, dating app privacy and dating apps by country.
Five apps side by side
Entry prices are the lowest US App Store rows, and most listings state no period. A cell reads Not confirmed where the pages checked do not say. Hornet and Taimi are described above and left out of the table.
Grindr
- Main intentlgbtq
- Free messagingYes
- Incognito modeYes
- Private photosYes
- Profile verificationNot confirmed
- Web versionYes
- Minimum age18
- Lowest listed price (US, App Store)USD 14.99, XTRA
HER
- Main intentlgbtq
- Free messagingYes
- Incognito modeYes
- Private photosNot confirmed
- Profile verificationYes
- Web versionNot confirmed
- Minimum age18
- Lowest listed price (US, App Store)USD 14.99, HER Premium
SCRUFF
- Main intentlgbtq
- Free messagingNot confirmed
- Incognito modeYes
- Private photosYes
- Profile verificationYes
- Web versionNot confirmed
- Minimum age18
- Lowest listed price (US, App Store)USD 3.99, Browsing Pro
Feeld
- Main intentsex-positive
- Free messagingYes
- Incognito modeYes
- Private photosYes
- Profile verificationYes
- Web versionNot confirmed
- Minimum age18
- Lowest listed price (US, App Store)USD 29.99, Majestic Membership
OkCupid
- Main intentdating
- Free messagingYes
- Incognito modeYes
- Private photosNot confirmed
- Profile verificationYes
- Web versionYes
- Minimum age18
- Lowest listed price (US, App Store)USD 7.99, OkCupid Premium
Apps that need no download are listed in dating sites without app download, and the wider free field is in free hookup apps and free-tier dating apps. Other groups are on the hub, dating apps by audience.
FAQ
Is SCRUFF or Grindr better?
The pages checked do not rank them. Both address gay, bi, trans and queer people with a nearby grid. Grindr's free account includes chat and private photos, with ads, while SCRUFF's free messaging is not confirmed and its Pro tiers start at USD 3.99 for Browsing Pro on the US App Store. SCRUFF adds a daily Match stack and an events and travel feed, and Grindr's XTRA shows up to 600 profiles at once against up to 1,000 nearby members on SCRUFF Pro.
Is Taimi only for LGBTQ+ people?
Taimi's site describes a fully inclusive dating app that embraces the entire LGBTQ+ spectrum, and the store title says LGBTQ+ dating. Whether it restricts sign-up by orientation is not confirmed. The terms set the minimum age at 18.
Which app is built for lesbian and queer women?
HER. The homepage speaks to queer women, nonbinary and trans sapphics, and its core features, including likes, matches and messages, are free with ads and daily swipes. OkCupid and Feeld are open to all genders and orientations.
Are there free gay hookup apps?
Grindr and SCRUFF are free to download, and Hornet's App Store listing calls it a free gay dating app. The free tiers differ: Grindr's includes chat and private photos, and SCRUFF's free messaging is not confirmed. The pages checked for Grindr and SCRUFF do not call either a hookup app.
Who is Grindr's biggest competitor?
No market-share figure is given here. SCRUFF and Hornet share Grindr's nearby-grid format, and other apps that work like Grindr covers the wider field.
Which of these have a web version?
Grindr and OkCupid have one, and Hornet's About page says it is available on iOS, Android and the web. A web version is not confirmed for HER, SCRUFF, Feeld or Taimi.