Kink dating apps and sites for BDSM and sex-positive communities
Of the five kink dating apps and sites below, FET and KinkyPeopleMeet call themselves kink and BDSM services, Feeld and AdultFriendFinder describe themselves as sex-positive, and 3Fun is pitched at open-minded singles and couples. Feeld is the only one with US App Store prices listed, the lowest USD 29.99 for 30 days.
At a glance
- Five services fit, in this order: Feeld, AdultFriendFinder, FET, KinkyPeopleMeet and 3Fun. Only FET and KinkyPeopleMeet describe themselves as kink or BDSM services.
- Feeld is free to download and free accounts can send messages. AdultFriendFinder registration is free, but what a free account can do is not stated.
- All five list 18 as the minimum age.
- Feeld, FET and 3Fun have iPhone and Android apps. AdultFriendFinder and KinkyPeopleMeet are websites with no store listing confirmed for either.
- US App Store prices are listed for Feeld only. For the other four, no price is known.
What counts as a kink dating app
Kink dating apps, as the term is used here, are services whose own pages name BDSM, fetish or alternative lifestyles, or that sign up couples and groups for open-minded dating. FET's site calls it "the kink & BDSM dating app for the fetish crowd", and the KinkyPeopleMeet homepage calls it a dating site "designed specifically for kinksters". Feeld and AdultFriendFinder use the label sex-positive, which is broader, and 3Fun's pages pitch it to open-minded singles and couples; the app does not use the term sex-positive.
The order is editorial and carries no score. The two services with review pages come first, then the three described only from their own sites, store listings and terms, all dated 2026-11-05. Each entry covers what the service says it is for, what a free account can do, which privacy and verification tools it lists, and what age rule applies. Relationship structure is a separate question, answered in open relationship apps, and a wider ranking for sex-first intent sits in sex apps.
Kink dating apps in ranked order
Feeld: desire tags and linked partner profiles
- Platforms
- iPhone, Android
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- USD 29.99 (US, App Store)
Feeld leads because its own About page names BDSM. The page lists it among the identities and interests the app expects to see, next to asexuality, polysexuality, celibacy and ethical non-monogamy, and the mission is framed around sexuality and relationships. Singles, couples and polyamorous groups sign up, and on Google Play a couple can link profiles with a partner.
The FAQ declines the hookup label, though the Looking for options still include Casual play and fun and Short-term connections. Desires, interests and Reflections guide who you see, and Feeld says it will never rank profiles. Two people who Like each other make a Connection and chat opens; a Ping lets you message someone before you match.
Free accounts can connect, explore profiles and send messages. The paid Majestic Membership adds who-likes-you, Unlimited Likes, one free Ping a day, Incognito, private photos and filters by Desires and Last Seen. Incognito hides your profile in the feed until you Like someone, and private photos are visible only to your Connections. The safety page calls photo verification optional. A web version of the dating app is not confirmed. Alternatives are collected in apps like Feeld.
AdultFriendFinder: an adult web community for singles, couples and groups
- Platforms
- Web
- Minimum age
- 18
- Lowest listed price
- not confirmed
AdultFriendFinder is a long-running adult personals website with member login, chat and live cams. The homepage describes a sex-positive community with "options for friendships, casual dating, or intimate relationships" and speaks of alternative lifestyles alongside traditional dating. That wording is what ties the site to this topic. A kink-specific tool, such as fetish tags, groups or events, is not described for AdultFriendFinder.
Registration asks who you are (man, woman, couple, group or trans) and who you want to meet, plus country, state, nearest city and postal code. Trans and non-binary identities and couples of any pairing can register. The site says its advanced matching finds local connections.
Joining is free. The pages do not say what a free account can do: some services need a paid subscription or credits, and whether free members can send or read messages is not confirmed. The same goes for incognito mode and private photos. No verification feature is described, and the terms of use say the company has no obligation to screen its users. The homepage markets a mobile version without linking a store page, and no official Google Play listing was found, so the website is the confirmed way in. See also options besides AdultFriendFinder.
Three more services without review pages
FET: kink and BDSM with a forum and events
FET adds chat rooms, a forum and local events to dating, and its wording leaves little doubt about the audience. The App Store listing is titled "FET: Kinky BDSM Dating App" and the developer is Ideawise Ltd; the Google Play listing, "FET: Alternative Dating", comes from the same developer. The terms refer to using FET in a web browser, so a web version exists.
The minimum age is 18, and the terms sit beside a Child Safety Policy that says the services are intended for adults only. The App Store listing appears in 44 of the 45 storefronts checked, with India the exception. What a free account can do and what a subscription costs are not known.
KinkyPeopleMeet: a browser site for BDSM and fetish
KinkyPeopleMeet is a dating site for people into BDSM and fetish, with image and video galleries and picture trading between members. An iTunes search on 2026-11-05 found no App Store listing, and no Google Play listing was found. The site's own App page lists only a home-screen install of the website, and no store app is confirmed.
The Terms of Use carry an Age Requirement clause with a minimum of 18. Verification is not confirmed, and no free-account limits or prices are known.
3Fun: couples and singles open to non-monogamy
3Fun is an app for singles and couples. It has couple accounts, group chats, private photos and an incognito mode. The pitch is to people open to non-monogamy, threesomes or exploring with a partner, and the site headline addresses open-minded singles. The App Store listing, "3Fun: Couples & Singles Dating", is from the seller 3Fun Limited and runs on iPhone and iPad. Google Play carries the same title and lists 1M+ downloads. The FAQ names a browser version, 3Fun Online (Go3Fun.co).
Section 4.1 of the UK version of the terms of service says users must be at least 18. The App Store listing appears in 36 of 45 storefronts checked, and is missing in Turkey, Israel, the UAE, Saudi Arabia, the Philippines, Malaysia, Indonesia, Hong Kong and Taiwan. Prices and the limits of a free account are not known.
Features side by side
A cell reading not confirmed marks a feature the listings and policies do not mention, so it may still exist. The matrix covers the two services with review pages. For the other three, the known features are in the entries above: 3Fun lists private photos and an incognito mode, FET lists chat rooms, a forum and local events, and KinkyPeopleMeet lists image and video galleries.
Feeld
- Main intentsex-positive
- Free messagingYes
- Incognito modeYes
- Private photosYes
- Profile verificationYes
- Location-based matchingYes
- Web versionNot confirmed
- iPhone appYes
- Android appYes
AdultFriendFinder
- Main intentsex-positive
- Free messagingNot confirmed
- Incognito modeNot confirmed
- Private photosNot confirmed
- Profile verificationNot confirmed
- Location-based matchingYes
- Web versionYes
- iPhone appNot confirmed
- Android appNot confirmed
Feeds that hide you or lock photos matter more in a community where many members keep these interests private. The feature pages for incognito mode and private photos compare other apps, and discreet dating apps ranks them on privacy.
Free versus paid on kink dating apps
Feeld is the only one with price rows. On the US App Store its 90-day plans list at USD 49.99 and a Majestic Membership for 1 year at USD 149.99, above the lowest listed USD 29.99 for 30 days. The UK App Store lists the 30-day Feeld Subscription at GBP 17.99 and a Majestic year at GBP 99.99. These are iPhone App Store prices; Google Play and web prices are not covered. Every row is on what Feeld costs by country.
AdultFriendFinder has no App Store row, so no price is known, and the pages say only that some services need a subscription or credits (its price page). Until that is settled, opening a free account is the way to see where its paywall sits. For FET, KinkyPeopleMeet and 3Fun, neither prices nor free limits are covered here, and no number should be assumed from the others.
Consent, age and safety rules
All five services list 18 as the minimum age, and none is open to people under 18. Feeld's UK terms (section 6.1) require members to be 18 or over and to confirm it. AdultFriendFinder's terms add the age of majority and legal consent to the 18 minimum. FET gives 18 and states in its Child Safety Policy that its services are intended for adults only. KinkyPeopleMeet's Terms of Use have an Age Requirement clause with a minimum of 18, and 3Fun's UK terms say at least 18.
Verification is thin across the group. Feeld describes photo verification as an optional feature, so a profile without it is normal. AdultFriendFinder describes no verification feature, and its terms disclaim any duty to screen users. For FET, KinkyPeopleMeet and 3Fun, verification is not confirmed. Anyone meeting a person from these services should treat a profile photo as unverified until the service says otherwise, and the checks in are hookup apps safe and romance scams apply.
Consent rules and reporting are the gap. No consent policy, code of conduct or report-and-block process is recorded for any of the five, so none is described here. Where a service publishes them they sit with its terms and safety pages: Feeld's safety page and AdultFriendFinder's safety page are the places to read first. Location data deserves the same care: Feeld's privacy policy says it collects device geolocation, and AdultFriendFinder asks for a postal code at sign-up. More on that is in dating app privacy.
FAQ
Is Feeld a kink dating app?
Feeld's About page names BDSM among the identities and interests it expects, and its FAQ declines the hookup label. The audience is wider than kink: couples and polyamorous groups sign up alongside singles. FET and KinkyPeopleMeet are the two here whose own pages are written for kink and BDSM. More detail is in the Feeld review.
Which kink dating apps work in a browser?
AdultFriendFinder is a website with member login, and KinkyPeopleMeet is a browser site. FET's terms mention use in a web browser, and 3Fun's FAQ names 3Fun Online (Go3Fun.co). A web version of the Feeld dating app is not confirmed. More in dating apps with a web version.
Are there kink dating apps for couples?
Feeld lets a couple link profiles, 3Fun has couple accounts, and AdultFriendFinder signs up couples and groups. Couple features for FET and KinkyPeopleMeet are not described. Pages for this audience: couples looking for a third.
Which of these are free?
Feeld is free to download and use, and free accounts can connect, explore profiles and send messages. AdultFriendFinder registration is free, but the free account's limits are not stated. Free tiers for FET, KinkyPeopleMeet and 3Fun are not covered.
What is the minimum age on kink dating apps?
18 for all five, according to their terms and policies. AdultFriendFinder adds the age of majority and legal consent to that.
Which kink dating apps are listed in the most countries?
Of 45 App Store storefronts checked, FET is listed in 44 (missing: India), Feeld in 42 (the Philippines, Malaysia, Hong Kong) and 3Fun in 36. AdultFriendFinder has no App Store listing, and none was found for KinkyPeopleMeet. Country pages start at dating apps by country.