DOWN alternatives: casual dating apps to try instead

HUD, Pure, Tinder, Bumble, Feeld and OkCupid are the DOWN alternatives covered here, each matched to something DOWN's own pages leave open: free messaging, an incognito mode, a readable price list or an intent beyond casual.

At a glance

  • DOWN is free to download and use, and its pages do not say whether free matches can message each other. Tinder, Bumble, Feeld and OkCupid confirm free messaging.
  • DOWN's FAQ says every member is photo-verified before they can swipe. HUD, Pure and Feeld call their verification optional.
  • No incognito mode is confirmed for DOWN. Pure, Tinder, Bumble, Feeld and OkCupid name one, and OkCupid sells it as a paid upgrade.
  • All six alternatives list 18 as the minimum age. DOWN's FAQ limits the app to adults, and its terms page gives no age.

Why people look for DOWN alternatives

Free limits come first, because DOWN leaves the main question open. The app is free to download and use, and a free account can swipe, filter by gender, location and dating preferences, and see the profiles it has liked. Seeing who has swiped on you needs VIP. Whether two free matches can message each other, and whether a daily like or swipe limit applies, is not stated in the FAQ, the terms or the store listings.

Price is the second. The FAQ calls the paid plan a VIP membership, the App Store text calls the subscription DOWN Private Membership, and whether the two are the same product is not confirmed. The US App Store rows add more names: Down VIP at USD 12.99 and USD 24.99 for 1 week and at USD 19.99 with no period stated, VIP on DOWN Dating App at USD 19.99 for 1 month, Upgraded Dating & Matches at USD 29.99 for 3 months, and VIP Wild Dating & Hookup at USD 35.99 for 3 months and USD 39.99 with no period. On the GB App Store, Down VIP lists at GBP 12.99 and GBP 24.99 for 1 week. Google Play and web prices are not covered, and DOWN pricing has the rest.

Intent is the third. Every profile gets a choice, down for something casual or up for something more, and the two buttons read GET DOWN and GET DATE. The store listings say casual dating, not hookup. The word appears in iOS in-app purchase names such as VIP Wild Dating & Hookup and in the Android package name. A reader who wants the label stated outright, or an app built around relationships, may not want to make that call on every swipe.

Privacy is the fourth. The pages checked mention no incognito mode and no private photos, and the Photo Challenge is a photo swap between matches. A selfie check comes before the first swipe, and browsing before that check is not described. The wider field is covered in discreet dating apps.

Casual dating with a different setup

HUD: the hookup label in plain view

Platforms
iPhone, Android
Minimum age
18
Lowest listed price
USD 12.99 (US, App Store)

HUD is the nearest swap for someone who likes DOWN's casual setting and wants it stated outright. Google Play titles the app "HUD Hookup App: Dating & Chat", and the App Store listing shows 208K ratings against 132K for DOWN. On Android the download counts are 500K+ for HUD and 1M+ for DOWN.

Matching runs on a feed of recommended matches, and you can like or comment on parts of a profile. My Bedroom preferences (into, open to, not into) and a Bedroom Archetype show compatibility before you match, and HUD says it uses an algorithm and machine learning to recommend matches. Video chat starts blurred, live video verification is optional, and the listings mention private photo sharing, with received media blurred. The App Store text also speaks to people new to open relationships.

The terms give a free Basic Membership a "minimal level" of features, and as with DOWN the pages do not say whether two free members can message. Premium and Premium+ come with a 7-day free trial. On the US App Store a 1-week Hud Premium lists at USD 14.99, close to DOWN's USD 12.99 for a 1-week Down VIP. A longer list of exits from HUD is in other ways out of HUD.

Pure: personal ads and a subscription from day one

Platforms
iPhone, Android, Web
Minimum age
18
Lowest listed price
USD 8.99 (US, App Store)

Pure works through personal ads: you post one about the experience you want. The safety page says "we're all for bold adventures and unforgettable nights", and the FAQ says the feed is based on your preferences and location.

Privacy tools are the reason to look. The app has an Incognito mode that keeps your online status hidden and withholds read receipts, a private album called Pure Album that you share with chat partners, and, by its own description, chats that expire and media that self-destructs. Photo Verification is an optional badge that takes under 30 seconds and needs no ID, where DOWN checks everyone. Pure also costs money from the start, since it has no standard free tier, only occasional trials and discretionary exceptions. A weekly Pure Membership is USD 13.49 on the US App Store and a monthly one USD 29.99, against GBP 16.99 and GBP 29.99 on the GB App Store. A web version exists according to the FAQ. For readers who want to leave Pure too, Pure alternatives picks up from there.

Free chat and a bigger pool

Tinder: free chat and a mixed purpose

Platforms
iPhone, Android, Web
Minimum age
18
Lowest listed price
USD 9.99 (US, App Store)

Tinder settles what DOWN leaves open: its App Store listing puts "Send Likes, match, and chat" under the free tier, and the paid tiers add unlimited Likes, Super Likes, Rewinds and Boosts. As on DOWN, a match needs both people to like each other, and on Tinder chat opens from there. Google Play shows 500M+ downloads, the iPhone app is listed in every one of the 45 storefronts checked, and a web version is part of the service under the Terms of Use.

The purpose is wider than casual. Google Play puts dates, serious relationships and new friends in one sentence, and the pages do not confirm casual dating as a purpose. Incognito Mode and Photo Verification appear on Google Play. On the US App Store the cheapest row is Tinder Plus at USD 9.99 with no period stated, Tinder Gold rows run from USD 13.99 to USD 24.99, and Tinder Plus is GBP 3.99 on the GB App Store. For a matchup see Tinder vs Bumble, and for exits Tinder alternatives.

Bumble: women-first and free to chat

Platforms
iPhone, Android, Web
Minimum age
18
Lowest listed price
USD 2.99 (US, App Store)

Bumble calls itself women-first, the closest match to DOWN's pitch to women. Google Play says "Bumble is a free app for meeting singles", and its free features include a profile with interests and prompts, ID Verification, video chat and picture sharing with matches, sharing meetup details with a trusted person, and Snooze Mode. Chat sits in the free list too, the Android app shows 100M+ downloads, and the iPhone app is listed in all 45 storefronts checked. Photo Verification gives a grey badge and may use facial recognition, and an Incognito Mode is described as browsing anonymously.

Intent leans toward dating. Google Play pairs dating "for fun" with finding "the one", and neither the listings, the homepage nor the guidelines position Bumble as a hookup app or rule it out. Paid tiers are Boost and Premium. On the US App Store the lowest row is a Bumble Boost at USD 2.99, Premium rows run from USD 17.99 to USD 32.99, and no period is stated in the listing. On the GB App Store, Premium lists at GBP 9.99 and GBP 24.99 for 7 days. Bumble vs OkCupid compares the two head to head, and what to try after Bumble covers the way out.

Open relationships and group play

Feeld: group play with linked profiles

Platforms
iPhone, Android
Minimum age
18
Lowest listed price
USD 29.99 (US, App Store)

DOWN's FAQ describes Group Play for people open to group play, polyamory or a group arrangement. Feeld builds a whole app around that audience: singles, couples and polyamorous groups sign up, couples can link partner profiles, and desire tags say what a profile is after. Casual play and fun is on the profile's Looking for list.

Feeld's FAQ says free accounts can connect, explore profiles and send messages. The paid Majestic Membership brings Incognito and private photos, plus who-likes-you, Unlimited Likes, a daily free Ping and filters by Desires and Last Seen. On the US App Store, 30 days costs USD 29.99 and 90 days USD 49.99, while the GB App Store lists GBP 17.99 and GBP 30.99; the year-long Majestic plan is USD 149.99 in the US. A web version is not confirmed, and the iPhone listing is missing in three storefronts (the Philippines, Malaysia and Hong Kong). Tinder vs Feeld sets Feeld against a mainstream app, open relationship apps and dating apps for couples widen the search, and Feeld alternatives covers moving on.

Something more than casual

OkCupid: questions first, then matches

Platforms
iPhone, Android, Web
Minimum age
18
Lowest listed price
USD 7.99 (US, App Store)

OkCupid matches members on answers to questions and stated preferences, and it scores compatibility between them. Its pages cover all genders and orientations, including LGBTQ and non-binary users, and Google Play addresses people "here for some casual dating" as well as those hoping for a serious relationship. Neither store listing nor the help center calls it a hookup app.

The help center says using OkCupid is free: you can create an account, answer questions, match and message without paying. Paid plans add seeing who has liked you, unlimited Likes and Dealbreakers, and Incognito Mode is a paid upgrade. Photo Verification is a video selfie with a liveness check. The US App Store lists A-List at USD 9.99 and OkCupid Premium rows from USD 7.99 to USD 59.99, none with a period stated. The Android app has 50M+ downloads and an Editors' Choice badge. Tinder vs OkCupid is the head-to-head, and OkCupid alternatives covers moving on.

How the picks compare

Free messaging is confirmed for Tinder, Bumble, Feeld and OkCupid, not stated for DOWN and HUD, and absent from Pure's free tier because Pure has none. In DOWN's own column only the filters row is confirmed, because its FAQ, terms and store listings are silent on the other five features.

DOWN

  • Free messagingNot confirmed
  • Video chatNot confirmed
  • Voice messagesNot confirmed
  • Advanced filtersYes
  • Travel modeNot confirmed
  • Disappearing messagesNot confirmed

HUD

  • Free messagingNot confirmed
  • Video chatYes
  • Voice messagesYes
  • Advanced filtersYes
  • Travel modeNot confirmed
  • Disappearing messagesNot confirmed

Pure

  • Free messagingNo
  • Video chatYes
  • Voice messagesYes
  • Advanced filtersYes
  • Travel modeYes
  • Disappearing messagesYes

Tinder

  • Free messagingYes
  • Video chatNot confirmed
  • Voice messagesNot confirmed
  • Advanced filtersNot confirmed
  • Travel modeYes
  • Disappearing messagesNot confirmed

Bumble

  • Free messagingYes
  • Video chatYes
  • Voice messagesNot confirmed
  • Advanced filtersYes
  • Travel modeYes
  • Disappearing messagesNot confirmed

Feeld

  • Free messagingYes
  • Video chatNot confirmed
  • Voice messagesNot confirmed
  • Advanced filtersYes
  • Travel modeYes
  • Disappearing messagesYes

OkCupid

  • Free messagingYes
  • Video chatNot confirmed
  • Voice messagesNot confirmed
  • Advanced filtersYes
  • Travel modeNot confirmed
  • Disappearing messagesNot confirmed

FAQ

Is there a free app like DOWN?

Among the DOWN alternatives, Tinder, Bumble, Feeld and OkCupid have free messaging confirmed, each with paid tiers on top. HUD has a free Basic Membership with a minimal level of features, and the pages do not say whether Basic members can message. Pure has no standard free tier.

Which DOWN alternatives are aimed at women?

DOWN's own marketing targets "open-minded Gen Z women", and Bumble calls itself women-first. Feeld is open to all genders, OkCupid covers all genders and orientations, and Google Play says HUD supports all orientations and gender identities. The pages checked for Tinder and Pure name no gender or orientation audience.

How do the lowest prices compare?

The lowest listed US App Store rows are USD 2.99 for a Bumble Boost, USD 7.99 for an OkCupid Premium row, USD 8.99 for a Pure App Membership, USD 9.99 for Tinder Plus and USD 12.99 for both a 1-week Down VIP and HUD's Basic Package (period not stated). Feeld's lowest row is USD 29.99 for 30 days on the US App Store. Periods are mostly not stated and tier names differ, so the rows do not line up as monthly costs. Google Play and web prices are not covered.

Where is DOWN not listed, and do the alternatives cover those countries?

Of 45 App Store storefronts checked, DOWN is listed in 43 and missing in Turkey and South Africa. All six alternatives are listed in both. Tinder and Bumble are listed in all 45, Pure and OkCupid in 44, and Feeld and HUD in 42.

Does DOWN have a web version?

It is not confirmed: the FAQ tells people to download DOWN on iOS or Android. Among the alternatives, a web version is confirmed for Pure, Tinder, Bumble and OkCupid, and not confirmed for HUD or Feeld. Sites that need no download are collected under dating sites without app download.

Sources

DOWN FAQ · DOWN terms · DOWN on the US App Store · HUD on the US App Store · Pure FAQ · Pure safety page · Tinder Terms of Use · Bumble on Google Play · Feeld help center · OkCupid help center